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Guidance for Hassan’s Parents
Dealing with a rebellious teenager like Hassan can be extremely challenging, especially when his behavior negatively impacts both the family and society. However, there is hope for change through a balanced approach of discipline, love, spiritual guidance, and professional support. Here are steps Hassan’s parents can consider:
As a Christian ministry, JFM can help by first emphasizing the power of prayer. Encourage Hassan’s parents to:
- Pray for Hassan: Pray for his heart to soften, for wisdom in handling him, and for God to reveal His purpose for Hassan’s life.
- Involve him in spiritual activities: Invite Hassan to participate in family devotions, attend church, and hear testimonies from other young people who have experienced transformation through Jesus.
Scripture reminds us, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6 KJV). Consistent spiritual guidance can redirect Hassan’s path.
Bad behavior often stems from underlying issues. It’s essential to determine why Hassan is behaving this way:
- Is he acting out due to unmet emotional needs? Perhaps he feels unloved or unheard.
- Is he influenced by negative peer pressure? Hassan might be imitating bad habits from friends.
- Are there family issues contributing to his rebellion? Sometimes children rebel because of unresolved family conflicts.
Balance firmness with compassion.
- Set clear boundaries: Hassan needs to know that stealing, disrespect, and avoiding school are unacceptable. There should be consequences for such actions, but these should be fair and non-abusive.
- Show love despite his behavior: Remind Hassan that discipline comes from a place of care, not anger.
The Bible says, “Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged” (Colossians 3:21 KJV). Instead of harsh punishment, demonstrate patience and understanding.
Hassan might not realize his value in Christ and society. JFM can help him understand that he has a unique purpose. Share verses like Jeremiah 29:11:
“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.”
Help him envision a better future and inspire him to turn away from his current path.
Sometimes spiritual and parental guidance needs to be supplemented by professional intervention.
- Counseling: Christian counseling can help Hassan express his frustrations and guide him toward better choices.
- Mentorship: Connect him with a trustworthy, godly mentor who can model positive behavior and guide him as a role model.
- Community Support: Get Hassan involved in constructive programs such as youth groups, sports, or skills training.
Encourage Hassan’s parents to restore their relationship with him through forgiveness and rebuilding trust. Address the police report incident calmly, teaching Hassan about the importance of respect for parents as commanded in Exodus 20:12:
“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.”
Hassan is still young, and with the right mix of love, discipline, and spiritual guidance, he can turn his life around. JFM can partner with his family in this journey by praying for them, offering counseling, and involving him in ministry outreach programs to see firsthand the joy of serving others. With God, nothing is impossible!
Let us remember Jesus’ words in Luke 15:7:
“I say unto you, that likewise joy shall be in heaven over one sinner that repenteth.” Keep hope alive for Hassan’s redemption.
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